To Grow BIG, You Can’t Just Rely on Your Circle of Influence.
- Andre Abouzeid
- Jun 29
- 3 min read
If you just watched my 2-minute video, welcome.
Now let me walk you through the full story—and the strategy that changed everything.
The Lesson That Took Me 25 Years to Fully Understand
When I started in business, people told me,
“Start with your Circle of Influence—your family, your friends, the people you already know.”
And that advice worked… in the beginning.
But here’s what nobody warned me about:
If you stay in your circle too long, you’ll stay small.
Real growth—the kind that builds multiple income streams and creates global impact—requires more.
The Stranger Who Changed My Life
It was a normal workday. Nothing special.
Until a man I’d never met walked into my workplace.
He didn’t know my background. He didn’t care where I was from.
All he saw was someone open to opportunity.
That 10-minute conversation turned into a business that changed my life.
Not a family member. Not a friend. A total stranger.
He introduced me to a system that created freedom—and helped me build income streams that have lasted for over 25 years.
That’s when I realized something powerful:
Your circle gives you confidence.
But strangers give you scale.
Why Your Circle Is a Good Start—but a Bad Finish
Let’s be honest.
Your Circle of Influence—your friends, relatives, coworkers—plays a role in your journey.
You can:
✅ Practice sharing your business
✅ Learn how to handle doubts and objections
✅ Build your first small wins
But here’s what happens after that:
❌ Your circle runs out
You know 100 to 200 people. That’s not enough to build lasting wealth.
❌ Your circle reflects your level
They likely think like you, earn like you, and doubt like you used to.
❌ Your circle keeps you comfortable
And comfort is the enemy of growth.
❌ Your circle sees your past
They remember who you were—not who you’re becoming.
The 2-Step Strategy That Builds Big Business
I call it the Circle + Strangers Model.
Step 1: Start with Your Circle
Use your warm market as your learning ground.
Share your opportunity
Get feedback
Improve your confidence
Make your first sales or signups
Step 2: Expand to Strangers
Go beyond who you know.
Attend events and networking meetups
Join online business groups and communities
Build new relationships intentionally
Focus on people who think bigger
This is where scale begins.
How to Connect with New People Without Being Pushy
The key to working with strangers is value-first relationships. Here’s how:
🔸 Go where open minds gather
Business events, online communities, seminars—these are filled with growth-minded people.
🔸 Ask before you tell
Instead of pitching your idea, start with a question. Get curious about others.
🔸 Share stories, not sales
Real stories connect. Results inspire. Be real.
🔸 Stay consistent
Meeting one new person a week = 52 potential breakthroughs in a year.
What Happens When You Combine Both?
When you start with your circle and grow with strangers, here’s what changes:
You no longer rely on people who “kinda support you”
You meet people who challenge you to think bigger
You find markets and ideas your circle never knew about
Your growth becomes unstoppable
Your confidence transforms into influence
That’s exactly how I went from struggling… to leading teams in 65+ countries.
Final Truth: What Took Me Years to Learn
Your circle teaches you.
Strangers scale you.
You need both.
If you stop at your circle, you’ll stay in the shallow end of opportunity.
But when you step out and meet new people, your life, income, and mindset expand.
That stranger who walked into my life 25 years ago?
He showed me that the most powerful people in your future are the ones you haven’t met yet.
What You Should Do Next
If you’re just starting, great. Begin with the people you know.
But make a decision today: I won’t stop there.
Meet new people.
Join new conversations.
Step into new environments.
Tell your story with confidence.
Your future partner, mentor, investor—or breakthrough—might be one stranger away.
Have you ever had a stranger change your business or life?
Drop your story in the comments. Or just tell me:
What's stopping you from stepping beyond your circle?
Let’s grow BIG—together.
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